Love, Lust, Or Both?

Ok I met this guy over the internet like....what was it 3 years ago. And I also met this girl (who is now my best friend) a year ago and we talk alot because we're awesome talking buddys! But When I started highschool i was with him. (I asked him out on New Years and He said yes *note this was 2006* and we were dating) We ended up breaking up because he said I love the thought of him....not true but I didn't want to fight so I agreed and yeah things happened and we ended up talking to eachother 4 months later. He had a boyfriend and so did I. My friend kept telling me boys and girls were stupid I agreed but couldn't help it -_-' and yeha didn't work. We're still talk and I feel like I'm being sucked in to his charming ways.....it's bad but good. I still have strong feelings for him, but it doesn't make sense to me.....relationships are a drag most of the time but I don't know anymore...My friend says no my mind say maybe and....perverted area says hell ya! But its just so confusing....He lives like 2 states away from me and we still kind of plan on meeting eachother....but thngs are not as what they seem. Oh well I'll think of something eventually.....or have help haha.